We accept the love we think we deserve. Why do some people feel the need to argue. When they hear the word “we” when asking questions about their relationships? Compromising on just the level of “love” not being fully aware of.
It or wanting more isn’t even remotely close to being fair. This is, in fact, a very close to the home subject. So when it comes to elaborating on why people believe that accept the love. We think we deserve, it’s a matter of experiences and thoughts.
So if you are not fully accepting of your feelings and not believing. That you deserve to be love, how can anyone else possibly know. What you feel or want?
Most people around us are working hard to convince us. That we don’t deserve any of what we think we deserve. People who have low self-esteem tend to not only look down on those who have higher self-esteem.
But also to put themselves down—accepting the love. That we think we deserve is vital. Because it will help to build our self-esteem and strengthen our inner strength and character.
If we were to look at the statistics that show. That most relationships end in divorce or breakdown of trust.
Because either party doesn’t honestly believe they deserve the other, we could take steps towards improving self-love. To truly enhance self-love we must first understand and appreciate the fact.
That we are a miracle, that God has placed us here on earth for a reason and. That we have a right to be happy and pursue a life of success, meaning pursuing. A life of helping others. By improving self-love, we will allow ourselves to be satisfied.
Accepting the love, we think we deserve to hand in hand with humility. The truth is that when we genuinely believe that we don’t deserve happiness, we won’t find it. We must begin to see that all that we have are blessings. And this is because we choose to receive them not because we are told they are blessings.
Many people around us act like we are better than ourselves, and we must be reminded that we are not. It’s OK to be proud of yourself and know. That you do deserve everything you think you deserve.
But it’s not OK to treat us like we are less than ourselves. When we treat ourselves like we are lesser, we will continue to act like that and expect more from others.
This will never change unless we learn to embrace the good enough love that we already have. When we start to see the good that we already have, we will be able to begin. The process of changing our negative thoughts into positive ones.
Acceptance of self is empowering. No one else can make you feel beautiful. No one else can teach. You how to be happy. No one else can protect your heart or give you a shoulder to cry on. It would be best if you decide to be in charge of your mind, body and spirit.