Are there really signs he is pretending not to like you? If you are wondering what the signs are that your guy is doing that isn’t for you to read this. The signs he is pretending not to like you that other women are able to see without you wondering about them are his lack of interest in you in general, and that lack of interest in you in specific. Read on to discover what these signs are and whether they might be signs he is cheating on you.
Men are strange creatures. They have an unusual need to control how you view them at all times and in all ways. They like their women to feel special and valued. In fact, they crave it, and when they feel valued by you they will do things to try to make you value them more. The thing is though; that when you are happy with a man you are no longer distracted by the need to prove to him how much he is valuable to you.
Men love knowing that women care about them. They want to feel like you are invested in them and in their future. When you spend time thinking about things with your man, you are making him feel important – as though he were someone important. He is relieved and happy to feel that you are interested in him and that he has your full attention.
Does he avoid you? Does he not want to be with you? You could actually see these signs he is pretending not to like you. He may avoid setting dates or going out with you entirely – or just not in quite the places you want to go. The reason for his avoidance is that he is afraid you might find another man better and more interesting.
Does he try to impress you? Does he ask you out often and keep trying to win you over? Does he try to make you laugh or make fun of your looks or your flaws? If he’s doing any of this, it’s because he feels like he needs to impress you or prove to you how good he is to get your attention. But what he’s really doing is trying to find a way to prove to you that you’re not so great after all. Men will do almost anything to snag a woman into his life.
Finally, the final set of signs he is pretending not to like you is if he leaves you alone. It would be so easy to argue with him or tell him that he’s driving you crazy. Instead, just allow him to be alone. This is his way of letting you know that you’re the only one for him.