Guys who have never had a serious girlfriend are almost guaranteed to stay single for the rest of their life. It’s just a fact of nature.
Girls don’t like to chase men around with their affection all the time. It also doesn’t pay to be too clingy, especially if you’ve never had any. So how can you make him feel more interested in you?
You can start by learning to speak his language. If you’re a shy guy who has never had a serious relationship.
Then you probably talk to him in the same way that girls talk to their friends. When you’re out with a guy, especially a girl. There’s a tendency to overthink things and to get lost in what you’re doing.
That’s a bad thing, especially when you’re trying to get a serious relationship started.
A new guy focus on the fact
Instead, take baby steps. When you’re out with a new guy, focus on the fact that you two are friends. Start by being friendly with him and trying to be interested in him, but don’t jump into anything more.
Suppose the conversation isn’t frequent, with hesitant silences, awkward fidgeting or rushed conversations, or quiet moments.
In that case, he probably has no interest in you, and he will need your help to maintain things going. Most people aren’t very good at conversing at all at the beginning of a new relationship.
Most guys who have never had a girlfriend would do anything for a girl who treats them as unique.
Be the first guy she calls and is friendly with. Be the one she talks to, even if you don’t know what she’s talking about.
Help her out, but only if you think she’s worth it. If you think she doesn’t deserve your attention, you will lose her rather than gaining her.
A girlfriend may think they have to be perfect
Guys who have never had a girlfriend may think they have to be perfect. They have to dress nice, be polite, pay attention to detail, and be very attractive. But that’s not true.
All it takes is for you to have the right attitude, be someone she trusts. And is comfortable with, and act like yourself.
She can turn you into a wonderful boyfriend in no time if you are just that kind of guy.
You also have to be honest when you start to get close to a certain woman. When you start to tell her your deepest secrets, you will lose that girl.
It doesn’t matter if you love her or not. A girlfriend would want you to be as honest with her as possible.
You will impress her if you are truthful with her, and it will also impress her. If you aren’t lying to her.