Many people look to the movies when it comes to figuring out how to kiss. It is not like your mother and father can sit down and teach you this skill set. You might learn by watching them and others, but is nothing like having your own teacher when it comes to kissing. Watching Hollywood films all your life you will see people over and over again doing one thing, the french kiss. You may wonder exactly how to do it, and this article is going to teach you just that, how to french kiss.

Why does one want to learn how to French kiss anyway? As stated above, you see it all the time in movies, and it is something that is romanticized by women and men alike in our society. It is a passionate form of kissing that is seen as a step above the traditional, partially open-mouth kiss. This is for when you want to ignite some real passion and bring the relationship or act to the next level. The first thing you want to do with a French kiss is to ensure that your lips are moist. This can entail utilizing chap stick, lip balm, or even saliva. You must be careful though, as you don't want to slobber all over your partner's lips and be seen as a dog-like kisser. Remember, dry lips will create friction and moist lips lead to good motion, and you will need that when it comes to a French kiss.

You will also need to remember to tilt your head. You don't want to have your head quite 90 degrees to your partner, but something comparable to a 45 degree angle will work. You will not be successful in French kissing if you go face to face - it won't work! You will begin by going in for a regular close mouth kiss, but the difference here is you don't want to keep your eyes open as you are often told, this time close them. Begin with a small kiss, gently opening your mouth. If your partner reciprocates this action, you open your mouth wider. You want to lock their upper lip between your lips, and vice-versa. This is the beginning of the more passionate kiss that you are looking to master. 

Do this a few times alternating their upper and lower lip in between yours, remembering not to drool all over their face during the kiss. Now comes the tongue, as you are locking each others lips, caress their lips with your tongue, and see if they do the same. If they don't, continue with just lips for a few moments. If their tongue does the same, you are on your way! Now you want to open your mouth, and encourage your partner to do the same. Explore each other's mouths and lips with tongues. Flick each other's tongue, nibble and suck on each other's tongues. This is where the passion begins to increase. The key here is to make the kiss slow and passionate, this will lead to better things. Don't be pushy and shove your tongue down their throat - take your time. Remember always, Rome wasn't built in a day!